Life

Well, I think life is all about feelings. The way we express our feelings, the way we stand for how we feel. Don't you think so? 

Only if it was easy to say what we feel and why we feel so, Our life would have been much easier. It's really difficult for us to stand up and be ourselves cause we fear being judged, we fear to be different and being made fun of. 

I wish there could be a world where everybody should be able to talk about how they feel without having to feel guilty about "the way they feel."

No matter what a relationship is, it could be a relationship of a child with his/her family or husband-wife or any other relationship that exists. Anybody should not hide about how exactly they feel about "how things should be". Also, this could be only possible if the listener is mature enough to take whatever is to be revealed. Only if everybody starts understanding each other and they don't have to prove themselves superior to each other or to impress each other, the world would have been far a better place than it is. There is always this one fear we all live with how the other person will feel or react to their likes and dislikes. Nobody wants to be grouped or differentiated by others. It's not that we should stop differentiating, all together. Differences are all good in itself. It's just we are no one to decide which group after differentiation is better and which is inferior. We are no one to give that judgment neither we process the right parameters. And people should learn to not get panic and over-react to anything. I know people have their own insecurities but the source of these insecurities only arises from not being understood. People are really judgemental.

Only if it was possible for us to stop judging. 

People around rarely have conversations nowadays, they only have debates. They have to prove themselves to every other person they meet and if you don't people won't let you live.

This whole world is a system. Which works well for some and intoxicate many others. Well not getting into the systems as it is really complicated and has lots of controversial issues. 

I think in this circus where everyone is the ringmaster of their own lives. Just be happy in your own surroundings. Your every laugh counts and your every tear do. It's just that it does not matter to others but off-course to you. So, yeah live life to fullest live all your happy moments with lots of happiness and even your bad ones with grief. It's good to moan for some time and then embrace the left-over happiness. Enjoy every moment. Try being yourself though it could be difficult at times. Let's take it as to being yourself not always, but most of the time. You know just try it little by little. Also, be flexible while expressing yourself so that you are not offending somebody else who is doing his little to speak for him or herself.

We all grow up knowing and observing how the world around us works in various different ways and we choose some of those ways to live ours while rejecting some on the basis of how we feel. 

We all have somebody or someone to impress and someone to show them down. This sort of competition has ruined what we call a life without insecurities.

Let me share a story with you. 

There are two kids KID A and KID B. Both of them are told that they need to be best in their class. They have to be number one and always have to stand first in their class. Now, KID A always tops the class. He grows knowing that he is perfect. He gets lots of attention from friends and teachers. Good time and good to hear. Though in the long run when this kid will land up in a world where people are good in their own different ways and the horizon widens. There lives will be in mess. They might not be able to face loosing. They will start fearing to loose so much that every single defeat no matter how small will bring him under depression. His/Her learning abilities are completely zero. He fears to make mistakes.   

Now KID B is a person who can't keep up to his/her parent's or teacher's expectations. Every single time he failed, he was made realized he was worthless. KID B has actually lost his interests and is really very underconfident.

Can you see how competition seeps in your lives and ruins it? I hope you can understand. How dreadfully lives have become. 

We all run for a mere bubble of reputation in which we forget how to live and how to have fun.